It bothered me so much when everyone agreed that a woman proposing to a man is damaging to a man’s self confidence, especially when Phoebe proposes to Mike, but it is considered inadequate, due to the numerous cat calls - such as “Grow some balls” and “Loser”. Personally I thought, both Monica and Phoebe were very brave when they realized that their respective partners needed help, and stepped up to finish the job
She worked in Monica’s restaurant :)
Ross: Hi. I’m uh, I’m Ross. I don’t, I don’t believe we’ve met. I’m Monica’s older brother.
Woman: Oh hi, I’m, I’m Mona from her restaurant.